Category: Korean Culture & Lifestyle

Dive into the rich traditions and vibrant modern lifestyle of Korea. From the elegance of hanbok to unique customs and everyday life, this category offers a glimpse into the heart of Korean culture.

Why Do Koreans Seem Unfriendly? Understanding Korean Hospitality Through a Different Lens

If you’re visiting South Korea for the first time, you might notice that Koreans sometimes appear reserved or even a bit cold, especially in public spaces. Some foreign visitors wonder, “Are Koreans unfriendly?” As a blogger living in Korea, I’d like to clear up this common misconception and help you see Korean hospitality from a new perspective.

It’s Not Unfriendliness – It’s Language Anxiety

One major reason Koreans may seem distant is the pressure to speak perfect English. Many Koreans, especially older generations, worry about making mistakes or not being able to communicate clearly with foreigners. This anxiety can make them shy away from starting conversations, even if they genuinely want to help. It’s not that they’re unfriendly-they’re just afraid of embarrassing themselves or causing confusion.

Cultural Habits: No Eye Contact, No Small Talk

Another important factor is cultural difference. In Korea, it’s not common to greet strangers with a smile or make small talk when making eye contact, unlike in some Western countries. Koreans usually reserve greetings and friendly gestures for people they know. So, if you pass someone on the street and they don’t smile or say hello, it’s simply not part of the local custom-not a sign of rudeness.

(Bukchon Hanok Village)

The New Generation: More Open and English-Friendly

The good news is that things are changing fast. Young Koreans are much more familiar with English, thanks to global pop culture, travel, and education. In big cities like Seoul or Busan, you’ll find many young people who are happy to help, answer questions, or even strike up a conversation in English. The younger generation is more open, curious, and eager to connect with people from around the world.

(Gwanghalluwon Garden in Namwon, Jeollabuk-do. Provided by the Korea Tourism Organization.)

Korea: One of the Safest Countries to Visit

Even if you don’t experience the same level of casual friendliness as in some other countries, you’ll notice something else: Korea is incredibly safe. Whether you’re exploring busy markets at night or taking the subway alone, you’ll find that Korea is one of the safest places to travel. People are honest, helpful when asked, and there’s a strong sense of community responsibility.

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Gureum’s thoughts

If you feel that Koreans seem a bit reserved at first, don’t take it personally. It’s not about unfriendliness, but rather language barriers and cultural habits. As soon as you ask for help or show interest, you’ll often discover warmth and kindness beneath the surface. And with a new generation that’s more comfortable with English and global culture, your experience in Korea will likely be both welcoming and memorable.

So, come to Korea with an open mind and heart-you might be surprised by the hospitality waiting for you!

May 8, 2025
Why You’re Older in Korea: The Fascinating World of Korean Age Systems
Have you ever wanted to time travel? Well, hop on a plane to South Korea, and congratulations – you just aged a year or two!

Hello, fellow Korea enthusiasts! As a cat-blogger living in South Korea, I often encounter questions from foreign friends about the unique way Koreans calculate age. If you’ve ever been confused about why your Korean age might be different from your international age, you’re not alone. Even some Koreans find it perplexing at times! Let’s dive into the three different age systems used in Korea.

(Picture Credits: allkpop)

Korean Age (세는 나이, Seneun Nai)

This is the traditional Korean age system and the one that will make you feel oldest. Here’s how it works:
- Everyone is born at age 1 (not zero – we don’t believe in starting from scratch here)
- Everyone gets a year older on New Year’s Day (January 1st)
  So if you’re a December baby, tough luck! You’ll be 2 years old when you’re barely a month old in real life. Talk about growing up fast!
Example: If you were born on December 31, 2024, you would be 1 year old on your birth date. Then, just one day later on January 1, 2025, you would turn 2 years old. Meanwhile, your Western friends would still be calling you a “newborn.”

(Created with GIMP)

International Age (만 나이, Man Nai)

This is the same age system used in most Western countries:
- You start at 0 when you’re born
- You get a year older on your birthday
Koreans call this “만 나이” (man nai), which translates to “full age” – as in, you’ve fully completed those years of life.

Calendar Age (연나이, Yeon Nai)

This third system is less common but still used in some contexts:
- You’re considered the age of the current year minus your birth year
- Regardless of whether your birthday has passed this year
Example: If you were born in 1995 and it’s now 2025, your calendar age would be 30 (2025 – 1995), regardless of whether your birthday has already occurred this year.

When Each Age System Is Used

(Ministry of Government Legislation/The Korea Herald)

Koreans often use different age systems in different contexts:
- Korean Age: Social settings, casual conversations, determining school grades
- International Age: Medical contexts, official documents, legal matters
- Calendar Age: Administrative purposes, determining school entrance years
Cultural Origins: Why All This Complexity?

You might be wondering, “Why does Korea have such a complex age system?” There are several fascinating historical and cultural reasons:
- The Importance of the Lunar Calendar
Traditional Korean society followed the lunar calendar, where the New Year was a significant milestone. The collective aging on New Year’s Day reflects the community-oriented nature of Korean society – everyone advances together through life’s stages.
- Counting Time in the Womb
The tradition of being born at age 1 acknowledges the approximately nine months spent in the womb. In Korean thinking, life begins at conception, not birth, and those months count toward your age.
- Hierarchy and Social Structure
Age is incredibly important in Korean social structure, determining how people address each other and behave in relationships. The Korean age system helps establish clear social hierarchies and ensures proper respect is shown to elders.

(Illustration: Seemon, DailyO)

The Age System Reform

In an interesting twist, Korea officially standardized the international age system for all legal and administrative purposes in June 2023. The government wanted to reduce confusion and align with global standards.

However, many Koreans still use the traditional Korean age system in daily life. Cultural practices change slowly, and many older Koreans especially continue to identify with their Korean age.

Gureum’s Thoughts

Meow there! 🐱✨

I was born on March 15, 2021, but I’m not sure how old that makes me in Korean age. To be honest, we cats don’t really care much about age – we’re too busy chasing sunbeams and napping! 😺💤

But did you know? In Korea, asking someone’s age when you first meet them is as natural as me asking for treats! It’s not because they’re nosy – it’s their way of figuring out how to address each other properly. They use age to decide whether to speak formally or casually. Isn’t that fascinating? 🤔

So, if your new Korean friend asks about your age, don’t think they’re being rude. They’re just showing interest in you, Korean-style! It’s like when I rub against your legs – it’s my way of saying “Hey, I like you!”

Oh, and here’s a little secret: if they say you look younger than your age, take it as a big compliment! It’s like when humans tell me I still look like a kitten – it always makes me purr with delight! 😸

Remember, in Korea, they might calculate your age differently, making you seem older than you think. But don’t worry – age is just a number, especially for us cats who are young at heart! Now, if you’ll excuse me, I think I hear a ball of yarn calling my name… 🧶
April 1, 2025